You can buy attention (advertising)
You can beg for attention from the media (PR)
You can bug people one at a time to get attention (sales)
Or you can earn attention by creating something interesting and valuable and then publishing it online for free: a YouTube video, a blog, a research report, photos, a Twitter stream, an ebook, a Facebook page.
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Hat tip to Randy for opening my eyes to the simplicity of this as an explanation of social media marketing.
I had been talking about my "Buy, Beg, Bug" thing for more than a year now in my talks and first blogged it in a post called What we all really want is Attention. It was also in the What Matters Now ebook. But my explanations always seem to be way too long. Thanks Randy!
For an even longer version, consider watching my 45 minute keynote from the BMA conference this year. There's Q&A at the end. Direct link here





That's good, but it cries out for a fourth 'b':
You can 'build' attention...?
Posted by: Richard Bailey | December 23, 2009 at 06:28 AM
@ Richard - Good idea! I'm no poet. Maybe I'll try that at my next speaking gig.
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | December 23, 2009 at 08:33 AM
Haha, I tried to do the same in 25 (or so?) a little while back:
http://thelostjacket.com/marketing/social-media-post
Like yours a lot better :)
Posted by: Stuart Foster | December 23, 2009 at 09:12 AM
Great summary!! It's all about creating valuable media and making it available to particular types of people who can use, it share it and look to you as their chief source for more of the same!
Posted by: Donna Maria Coles Johnson | December 23, 2009 at 09:24 AM
For the sake of discussion...
When you write that check to the writers, video producers etc. so you can have white papers, posts, videos etc., how does this differ from buying attention/advertising?
And when you tweet about your new ebook, how does that differ from begging for attention/PR?
And when you send me pointless emails every other day because you got my address when I downloaded the whitepaper - how does that differ from bugging people/sales?
And when you consistently deliver unique value to your customers - and they, in turn, shout about that experience to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers and colleagues...isn't that earning business for the reason you opened your doors?
Now, business owner, you have limited resources - should you invest them in the customer experience or in a blog, white papers, videos...
Just asking. And I don't mean to downplay the role of SM in helping businesses attract, engage, convert and retain profitable customers...but the 3 point comparison is a wee bit too simplistic for my tastes.
Best,
Pat
Posted by: twitter.com/patmcgraw | December 23, 2009 at 10:15 AM
@patmcgraw
Thanks for jumping in.
Yes, of course this is simplistic - it's just 61 words!
The speech is much longer and goes into much more detail.
I do not advocate doing just one thing. If advertising, PR and sales is working, that's great. And yes, it is a mashup of a lot of things.
However, most organizations are ignorant or fearful of my 4th way and any way I can get people to notice is good.
David
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | December 23, 2009 at 10:30 AM
David, David, David... what a perfect 61 words.
Elegant simplicity that even those who still don't get it, should be able to understand.
Posted by: marti garaughty | December 23, 2009 at 11:00 AM
David have you ever considered putting all your videos/talks into Podcast form on the iTunes store? I'd love to track you and your content that way rather than have to sit online on a computer and watch a 45 minute presentation. If that makes sense. Finding more and more people wanting mobile media content so we can learn something on our iPhone while commuting or treadmilling.
Posted by: John Nemo | December 23, 2009 at 11:52 AM
David, I'm a sucker for alliteration and liked Richard's suggestion for adding a fourth "b": build.
However, I believe what is communicated with the word "earn" is much more accurate than what is communicated with the word "build." After all, we can build anything (even through buying/begging/bugging), but what we build won't necessarily earn attention, authority and access.
For what it's worth...
Posted by: Keith Jennings | December 23, 2009 at 11:59 AM
Great summation of the core ideas behind social media marketing. And the video rocks, I'm going to share it with clients. Getting people to lose their fear, let go of control, blog about dogs instead of dog food, ditch the jargon, etc. all coincides with what I've been trying to tell people, and your examples really support that message. (It was also a good reminder that I've got to make time to finish the e-book I've been working on!)
Posted by: Heidi Cool | December 23, 2009 at 04:32 PM
David, Great use of 61 word and I loved your book ("New Rules..."). Being in the printing business, we are not only trying to figure this stuff out to market our own business, but we are trying to become expert in the new marketing so that we can become marketing and communications consultants. We realize that if we rely on our legacy printing business, we will continue to see declines in our revenues. Every day we become more and more comfortable in our conversations with our customers about all ramifications of marketing in this digital age.
Posted by: Stephen Eugene Adams | December 23, 2009 at 06:41 PM
I love simplicity, I work with a lot a small businesses that already have too much complication in their lives and don't me to bring in more. I try to show them how SIMPLE Social Media (or Wala`au Media) and Inbound marketing is. Be Useful and earn!
Good one David - BTW, just listened to the IMU presentation you did.
Posted by: Randy Botti | December 23, 2009 at 08:13 PM
Also, thanks for the mention.
Posted by: www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1007686027 | December 23, 2009 at 08:17 PM
Great video. Very informative David. Funny how long it takes us to catch up the the tech of today. Creatures of habit I suspect.
Posted by: Colette Barry | December 23, 2009 at 10:37 PM
Thank all for the comments.
John Nemo - good idea. It would be good to figure out a way make a bunch of video available in smaller snippets.
David
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | December 24, 2009 at 03:48 AM
Hey, David -- I'm reminded of Churchill, who said, 'if you want a three-hour speech, I can be ready in 10 minutes. If you want a 10 minute speech, I'll need three days'. It's always harder to crystallize the wisdom into a few words. Nice job. But don't stop giving speeches!
Posted by: nick morgan | December 24, 2009 at 09:05 AM
What a simple way to look at and explaing social media. I appreciate your insight and website. I will pass it along to twitter and social media doubters.
Posted by: Promotional Products | December 27, 2009 at 10:32 PM
perfect explanations for today's marketing, excellent post!
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Posted by: Laneendsdental | January 06, 2010 at 06:14 AM
I like how you get right to the point and explain the different ways for marketing. Thank you for sharing.
Posted by: Jayphilips | January 07, 2010 at 10:41 PM
Like the concept of Building Attention and contrasting it with Buy, Beg, Bug. May want to call the 4Bs of marketing.
Dorai
Posted by: Dorai Thodla | January 10, 2010 at 12:10 AM
Ha - Love it. The 4Ps are now the 4Bs
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | January 10, 2010 at 02:57 PM
Very good idea to attain the attention and advertise as well, thanks for sharing.
Posted by: brian trane | January 22, 2010 at 12:15 AM
Great post David,
Inbound marketing (creating valuable content for your target audience for free) and promoting that content via social media is effective, fun, and you get quality interaction with your target audience that "buying" and "begging" lack (comments, tweets, etc). That translates into better products, better service, and happier customers.
- Pete Kistler
CEO, Brand-Yourself.com
Posted by: Pete Kistler | January 25, 2010 at 01:43 PM
Thank you for bringing out the simplicity of this often over complicated & misunderstood form of internet marketing. You might also be interested in the following blog about using twitter to get "attention" for your business http://www.cmdsonline.com/blog/making-twitter-relevant-to-your-business/.
Posted by: Brianne Douglas- Internet Marketing Manager | January 25, 2010 at 04:22 PM
Great article!Social media is a good way to network with other professionals.The more you network within communities like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, YouTube, etc, the more your brand is going to be exposed to others.Thanks for sharing such a useful information.
Posted by: how to get him back | February 13, 2010 at 06:50 AM
That's key of social media marketing. Thanks for the article.
Posted by: samet | May 10, 2010 at 05:20 PM
Great post although PR as begging doesn't quite sit right with me. Possibly if you are only doing proactive, brand work but media relations and reactive (government, not for profit, crisis comms) don't quite fit. Just being fussy :P
Posted by: courtney lambert @cjlambert | May 10, 2010 at 06:19 PM
Courtney,
Thanks for the comment.
I only used 61 words... Hard to qualify my statement.
Regarding PR as "begging" - I am a contributing editor at EContent Magazine, I write for Huffington Post, I write this blog and have a bunch of twitter followers and I have published 5 books.
I get over 200 pitches a week.
195 of them feel like begging to me.
David
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | May 10, 2010 at 06:52 PM
I'm with Pat on this one, as both a consumer and an independent contractor. There's a local pest company that has a great blog, but now that I have termites, I'm still going to ask my friends and family who they use and why. And when it comes to my own business, 95% of my new customers have come from direct referrals from happy clients. If you have the bandwidth to do great work and social media (including creating free content like white papers and reports), great. It can't hurt and may help. But if you don't have that bandwidth, prioritize doing great work - for many businesses, highly targeted traditional marketing is still the most affordable (accounting for money AND time) complement to word of mouth.
Posted by: Ericvanmeter | May 21, 2010 at 11:32 AM
Hi David! I just got to know about you as i've recently bought your book : the new rules of marketing and PR. It has been a great help to my Internet business! I can't be thankful enough (:
Posted by: Valerie | September 09, 2010 at 04:51 AM
I really do believe that in order to be successful in marketing your business, you need to know the right way of getting the public's attention.
Posted by: Andy Hussong JV Attraction Formula | September 13, 2010 at 04:44 AM
This is one of the best guides to using social marketing that I’ve read. If someone is confused about this subject you have really a haze dis-solver here. Thanks for the post!
Posted by: Affiliate Program Manager | October 09, 2010 at 08:05 AM
You have explained the entire concept of social media in only 61 words, its incredible because it\s a long topic but you done well to accumulate the important things. The social media is very easy and simple provided you dont make it difficult. We can easily make lots of friends and corporate relations and ultimately get business and high rankings on Google as well.
Posted by: Proposal Software | March 27, 2011 at 04:54 PM
Thanks! Now you need a contest to boil it down into a 140 character tweet :-)
Here's a starter:
Don’t buy it with ads. Don’t beg for it with PR. Don’t bug individuals with cold calls for it. No, earn attention by creating great content.
Posted by: Colin Warwick | May 24, 2011 at 04:19 PM
Good one Colin! Thanks.
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | May 24, 2011 at 04:23 PM
...140 exactly...
https://twitter.com/#!/signalintegrity/status/73122610921222144
;-)
Posted by: Colin Warwick | May 24, 2011 at 04:28 PM
But now nobody can RT it.
Posted by: David Meerman Scott | May 24, 2011 at 04:30 PM
I see your point, the three Bs (buy, beg, bug) would probably generate some attention but that would probably be for want of a better word,forced . But if you could create something interesting, the attention that it would generate would be more genuine and could probably lead to whatever you want to promote going viral and we have seen how well that has done in the past.
Posted by: Chris | June 09, 2011 at 11:01 PM